So you got married. Congratulations!!!! Even if you’ve been together for a long time before you took this step, marriage has a few tricks up it’s sleeve that could surprise you. The first year of marriage is an important one too because that’s when you lay a foundation for a successful “happily ever after.” And that’s exactly what you wanted when you said “I do,” isn’t it?
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ~
In this article we will look into the 7 main challenges that come up in the first year of marriage, after the honeymoon is over, as well as how to deal with them. Interested? Keep reading.
1. Fights
I am sure you already know this, but here it goes again: the fact that you love each other enough to get married doesn’t mean you’ll stop fighting. In fact if you never fight that may be a symptom of a problem. But fights after marriage, believe it or not, are different.
There are much less about winning and much more about keeping the healthy balance in the relationship. Have you heard the saying that after you’re married, you can only be as happy as the least happy person in the marriage? It’s true. So now everything you do to make your partner feel bad during a fight eventually makes you feel bad. How do you handle that?
Solution
First and foremost, you never want to threaten your partner with leaving them. To be honest, it’s best if that never even crosses your mind — even if it does, keep it to yourself. Happy relationships are built on a mutual desire to be together no matter what.
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